This has been a hard year. Across our country, we’ve seen violence and tragedy; anger and hate; and misunderstandings, suspicions and distrust. Here in Connecticut, we’re facing a budget crisis. We have watched working families struggle to get the subsidies that could help them pay for child care, and helped our family child care providers figure out how to keep their businesses going in the face of economic challenges.
Nonetheless, every day we are re-inspired by the extraordinary work that our family child care providers are doing. We get to see how they are giving children warm, enriching, and loving places to spend their crucial early years. And in turn, we get to see parents go to work, knowing their children are in safe, nurturing hands. Family child care providers are changing the lives of children and families, and their achievements give us hope.
So, as the year draws to a close, we’re sharing a story of three people—a family child care provider, a parent, and a child—with you.
Our story begins with a woman named Ana Ramos. In 2014, Ana was laid off from her long-time position working at a factory. It did not take her long to dedicate her professional life to educating young children. She had worked with children many years earlier in her home country of Cape Verde. Unemployed, and with a young son of her own, Ana reached out to All Our Kin. With our help, Ana successfully obtained her family child care license, but she struggled to enroll children. While she waited, Ana took part in every training All Our Kin had to offer, making sure that she’d be ready to provide the best possible care to children once they walked through her door. All Our Kin business coach Janmarie Peña helped Ana to put a marketing plan in place; on the day that a parent finally knocked on Ana’s door, Janmarie happened to be on site. She helped Ana manage that critical first interview. The family enrolled, and Ana has never looked back.
Two years later, Isabel and her son Justin (names changed) were living in a homeless shelter. Isabel had lost her home and her sense of security as a result of domestic violence. She couldn’t begin to move forward and rebuild her life until she found child care for Justin, a lively two-year-old with a dazzling smile who exhibited some social-emotional and communication delays.
Ana’s family child care program was just what Isabel and Justin needed. Through All Our
Kin’s Early Head Start program, we were able to make the connection, and enroll Justin in Ana’s program, where he improved his communication and language, learned to manage his emotions, and built essential skills, such as sharing with others.
Since the family was enrolled in our Early Head Start program, we were able to support Isabel as well. Our family advocate, Carmen Roman-Gonzalez, helped Isabel find a better job, which enabled her to buy a car and then to find a new home for herself and her son.
This year, Justin turned three; he graduated from Ana’s program, and transitioned to one of the highest quality preschools in New Haven. Isabel has become a passionate advocate for early childhood education, sharing her story with other parents struggling to make ends meet. Ana’s program is continuing to thrive: she currently has four children enrolled and works closely with Early Head Start staff to uplift children and families.
Isabel recently sent us a letter to express her thanks. Here’s an excerpt:
“I’m truly grateful for All Our Kin. This program changed my life. They are the real deal! I’m just one mom that has had a life change because of All Our Kin, I can only imagine the changes for others. The staff at All Our Kin are the most compassionate beings I ever met.”
We often describe our model as a win-win-win: child care professionals succeed as business owners; working parents find stable, high-quality care for their children; and children gain an educational foundation that lays the groundwork for achievement in school and beyond. This story helps illustrate how the triple win works, and how our investment in family child care providers translates into greater well-being for both parents and children.
All Our Kin currently reaches 400 caregivers each year, touching the lives of over 2,000 children. In the coming year, we plan to work even harder on behalf of children, families, and caregivers. We will help our mighty Family Child Care Network to weather Connecticut’s difficult economic climate, and we will reach more communities than ever before, sharing our work across the state.
Our sincerest thanks to the incredible providers we work with each day, and to our dedicated supporters who make it all possible. Best wishes for a joyful and restful holiday season.